Growing up in a small town/community, I’ve known most of my friends since childhood. Most have weaved in and out of my life at different times. I am blessed to know so many great people, but for me there still is no Best Friend. I say I have one, but in reality we’re not all that close. We never talk on the phone, don’t text, don’t even really go out together one on one. And you know what? I miss having that. I miss having a “person”. I have H, but its not the same.
I watch commercials, or read articles about making time for your girls and I always get a bit down when I realize; I don’t have that. And I don’t know how to get it.
There is someone who may quickly be filling that spot. We hang out a lot, and our husbands love each other. We’ll either do something involving all 4 of us, or split up for a while. She’s someone I could spend hours with and pretty much do whenever we hang out.
But then I start to worry. I don’t want this friendship to become like all the others, gradually fading away because of time and circumstance. It’s gonna take work, but to me it’s worth it.
citygyrli Said:
on July 31, 2008 at 11:47 pm
Hey! Thanks for the comment! we’re pretty alike, you and me. I read the first part of yours about being married at 22…I’m engaged at 24 (he’s 22) and everyone’s trying to talk me out of it, too. hope you don’t mind that I added you to my blogroll! =)